How To Avoid Social Anxiety/Shyness, Have Amazing Conversation, And Make 10x More Friends

If You Want The Exact Steps To Having Conversations That Make Women Call You Back To Hang Out, Have 10x More Friends In Your Social Circle, Consistently Get Invited To Parties, Get-Togethers And Other Social Events Then This Will Be The Most Important Letter You Ever Read…

Dear Friend Who Wants Social Success And More Friends,

    Have you ever had this happen to YOU?

  • Have you ever had a good conversation with people you thought were friends and when you walked away you can hear them snickering and laughing at you?
  • Do you become self-conscious and stilted at social gatherings because other people ignore you?
  • Have you ever been in a situation where there’s a girl you like and some guy deliberately embarrasses you. And you see that look come over her eyes that makes you realize she probably sees you as a loser?
  • Do you find that your friends conveniently aren’t around when you need them the most?
  • Do you feel like others have all the power and choice when it comes to social situations like making friends and going out with others…and you have little or none?
  • Do you wish you knew how to stop jerks in their tracks whenever they have fun at your expense?
  • Do you hate the idea of admitting to others that you feel insecure about this area of your life, and you really wish you could do it yourself?
  • Do you get really freaked out when others become upset or dramatic at you…and not know what to do?
  • Would you Really like to have exceptional friends…who don’t use others…and who are there when you need them?
  • Have you ever felt like NOTHING you ever do will change your situation and you should just accept it?
  • Would you like to have really outgoing, fun friends who are social and outgoing, but have no idea how to connect with them?
  • Or do you already have success in this area to some extent, but you’d like to take it to the next level RIGHT NOW and start having more consistent results?

If you answered “YES!” to any of these questions, then I have some important news for you…

You’re NOT alone. In fact, that list of questions came from my own personal experience and from learning about this area of my life for myself.

The Bottom Line Is This…

NOT having friends and feeling uncomfortable in social environments sucks!

It makes you feel out-of-place, left out and lonely.

It leaves you feeling like you have no power in your life.

It takes over your thoughts where you can’t focus on your job or other areas of your life. It overpowers everything else…

On the other hand…

KNOWING how to fit in, make friends effortlessly and handle bullies feels AMAZING.

It feels good going into a social setting, walk right up to the people who invited you and start a conversation where everyone likes you.

It feels good knowing how to be the guy who gets invited everywhere, where people have to PERSUADE you to lose sleep and come hang out with them.

It just feels good knowing how to make friends.

Most Shy Guys Never Figure Out What It Takes To Become Socially Savvy. They Try The Same Things Over And Over Again…And Fail

In a moment I'm going to give you a technique so you can overcome that.

The techniques I give you has been tested at bars, night clubs, social gatherings, against bullies... in the REAL world and in the most difficult situations.

But before I do that...

Who am I? And what do I have anything to do with anxiety, shyness and social issues? Let me tell you a short story about my life when I was shyintroverted and the guy who was always left out... So that maybe you can also start figuring this out for yourself too:

When I was growing up my father kept a tight leash around me to keep any outsiders from influencing me.

What that means is I wasn’t allowed to have friends because they’re “ALL BAD INFLUENCE”

I went to school, came home, got math tutored and next day went back to school.

"I Had No Friends"

My mother picked out my clothes and made sure it DIDN’T fit in with the mainstream crowd…because if it did in her words I’d become ‘corrupt’.

Her idea of style is what people wore back in her days.

When I argued …I was guilt tripped and she literally said:

“I’m Using My Hard Earned Money To Buy You This, You Should Appreciate It.”

"I Had Serious Lack Of Confidence"

I managed one or two friends and mostly talked to them over the internet.


People hated me in school because I was "different".

I hated them for labeling me that…But deep inside I wanted to be accepted.

Fast Forward After College...

I was still much of the same person.

I told myself I’ll build a career and hold out on the fun that everyone else is having…so I can reap the benefits later.

"I Knew That's Just A Lame Excuse I Made For Myself"

Everyone else was doing fine.

In fact some of them even had better careers…

It-drove-me-insane and I didn’t know what to do to make my social life better, how do I escape the loneliness?

And then something changed

I met this girl…

She was HOT.

She was the type who had all the attention, guys chasing her, always out…

Me I basically had no friends, no weekend life, none of that stuff.

We went on a date and for the most part it went pretty well.

We sat down and I thought about when I’d see her next and suggested “Hey next time we can go to Symposium Café ”

She looked at me square in the eye and said “There won’t be a next time.”


I went home and thought back on my life. From the people I knew, to the routines that I was living to where I’d be ten years from now.

I was sad, pissed-off, and angry

That was the tipping point for me…

This Is Not Where I Wana Be In My Life

I decided I’d do ANYTHING to get out.

How much lower can I go than this? I lost my inhibition, thought of nothing else. Pretty much bootstrapped and tried making friends, getting to know more people, I tried getting invited to events, I tried standing up to bullies.

No matter how hard I tried I FAILED over and over again.

I just went home at night, recuperated, and went on about it next day

By Chance I Came Across...

Sometime after I came across a guy I'll nickname Em. I’ve never ran into anyone with an air of POWER, CONFIDENCE and SOCIAL PERSONALITY that he had.

It must have been alignment of the stars or something.

He had women CHASING him and people from years ago still calling him back...he wasn't exceptionally good looking or have lots of money.

I have a feeling he somehow knew I had trouble fitting in.

The gist of it is he invited me to hang out with his group and we became good friends and he helped me with some of my social challenges.

It started to make sense for me.

Over time I found several other guys like Em who I consider some of the BEST, (It was NOT easy with these guys and it took YEARS finding them) and hung out with them.

I Started To See What I Was Doing Wrong All My Life

I saw what I was doing wrong.

What others really thought of introverted men.

I was getting more and more comfortable in social environments.

The Discovery That Changed My Life

And I came to a realization…

“It doesn’t matter how hard you try…you can’t learn how to become socially savvy if you’re on the receiving end of social disapproval.”

Unless you’re INVITED in by those groups you’re never going to figure out how to be successful like them…the puzzle pieces are never going to fit together.

I retraced my steps of how I was before meeting Em, and how I was being now.

Found what I was doing DIFFERENTLY and started doing JUST THAT.

Completely eliminating what I was doing before all of this.

Like Magic

What happened next blew me away. People IMMEDIATELY started responding to me how they would with Em and those other guys.

I didn’t believe what was happening.

They told me I had a certain “Power and Authority” about me.

I consciously knew what I was doing right this time…so I applied it with  different groups again and again.

And that’s when I started getting REAL results.

Seeing the TREMENDOUS leap from being the guy just part of the group to the guy who suddenly became popular I wanted to see if I can teach others to do the same.

How It Worked For Others

I decided to take one or two techniques and teach it to others.

I wanted to see if it would do anything for them.

And it did! They were getting the same results I was.

NONE of these guys had movie star good looks, big bank account or fame.

In fact, some were in their 40's, some were overweight, some were balding, and some were barely out of school!

And almost ALL of them believed it was impossible for them to get the kind of success I talked about.

But after walking them through my discovery, and showing them how to use the techniques, their concept of what was possible was SHATTERED!

The realization kicked in that I “Stumbled” onto something very interesting that no one else knew about. So I spent the next several years studying this through psychology and by going out into the real world with these guys and experimenting. I was able to eventually develop this into a system and method that gets results every-single time.

Before I get into that…

What's The Technique I Was Going To Teach You Earlier?

Here it is...

You already know not knowing what to talk about can kill your interactions.


Do you think CONVERSATION has a direct connection between popularity and likability? I think it does…

Not Knowing How To Keep Conversations Going Can Creep Others Out

It gets awkward being around that person.

When you become masterful in the art of conversation people are naturally drawn to you and it’s easier to fit in with the groups you want.

Most people go into interactions expecting the other person to say something “Sooo…what’s up?”

And because this person has nothing to add they are considered weird by others.

One of the reasons conversation is important is that from an EVOLUTIONARY standpoint conversation is what allowed our ancestors to get along with each other.

When we don’t have conversations others can’t figure us out, they don’t trust us because they don’t know what we’re about.

What Do You Talk About?

Have you seen how popular mainstream music artists are?

What makes them so popular? What makes them so desirable?

Why do you think there is no hit music video about a guy reading the newspaper? Or watching TV?



The media knows what to COMMUNICATE to people and song writers make sure to incorporate that RIGHT message and deliver it to people in the form of songs and music videos.

They figured out what particularly communicates well with others and gets them in rapport.

It’s NOT accidental.

You can use this knowledge and include it in your conversations to hold people’s attention and have them interested in what you have to say.

Here's a hint...

Music videos show a life people wish they had, away from the mundane.

Away from work, family, responsibilities etc…

It’s something that’s only available during the weekends…the WEEKEND life.

The media knows we seek this escape so they portray it. They show music artists having this life and it ATTRACTS people.

That fun, no-responsibility part of the week.

So…here’s what you do.

Go to YouTube and find music videos with 3Million + hits and see what the topic is about, what the theme is. That’s the theme and topic people are most interested in.

Use those topics in your conversation and INSTANTLY you have something others will pay attention to.

Try it

What I Was Persuaded To Do

The more I taught this stuff to my friends the more they pressured me to write a book about it.

After getting numerous requests again and again I gave in…

I’ve finally put together a complete educational product for DRAMATICALLY increasing your success in the social arena into an ebook I named “Secrets To Becoming Socially Savvy & How To Attract 10x More Friends.”

It’s a complete system that if you follow you can get better if not the same results as some of the most social people you know.

What I gave you earlier is a tip of the iceberg. It goes much much deeper that I can’t get into it in this letter…

You'll be at the cutting-edge of social awareness and skills

You already have a piece of the puzzle that I gave to you.

This is your chance to get “behind the scenes” of what it’s like to have the success most people wish they had and live their lives without.

And I’ll tell you everything so you get the whole picture.

What's more... 

  • It doesn't matter if you never had success in this area...
  • It doesn't matter if you've tried but failed over and over again...
  • It doesn't matter what your beliefs are about the current situation you're in...
  • And... it doesn't matter if you still think I'm exagerating about how easy this is.

Nope. The ONLY thing that matters... is your desire to overcome shyness and social anxiety and becoming more social.

Here's What You're Getting

I've done all the work for you.

I've spent years searching for the right answers, read books, searched online, asked the people I knew.

But I was never satisfied with what was given to me.

The truth is, 99% of advise you get online or from people you know doesn't work.

It wasn't until I met the right people, tested and developed the right techniques, that I figured out how to TRULY make it work. 

This isn't like those books written by some stuck up academic who never experienced shyness or social anxiety in his life... and decides to write about it... who doesn't even know what it's like.

Every advise and technique I give you has been tested at bars, night clubs, social gatherings, against bullies... in the REAL world and in the most difficult situations.

When I decided to put this solution together in one course I wanted to make sure it's advise unlike anything you've ever seen...

Have a look...

Here's a SMALL list of what you're learning inside this program:

  • What women secretly like about men but will NEVER tell you Pg.35
  • The ONE mistake men do with EVERY hang out that makes it boring Pg.70
  • What bullies DON’T expect from you, and makes them think twice before approaching you again Pg.80
  • FIVE simple words that gets people to WANT to hang out with you. Pg.67
  • The ONE mindset that changes you to an OUTGOING personality. Pg.46
  • An overlooked style of communication where people get GLUED to your conversation. Pg.57
  • Why most people would rather you DIDN’T have social success. Pg.51
  • When being a Jerk just enough gets people interested in you Pg.34
  • SIX UNIVERSAL traits disrespected in western society and how you can avoid it Pg.51
  • Why being funny works against you IF you don’t know this one key element Pg.60
  • When satisfying the LEAST amount of people makes you the most desirable Pg.43
  • What you learned as a kid that’s currently DESTROYING your adult social life Pg.48
  • Simple 3-Step-Formula for increasing CONFIDENCE, generate CHARISMA and give you AUTHORITY so others take you seriously. Pg.41
  • The REAL reason why most shy men will never have REAL success in social environments…and how to SMASH THROUGH and permanently eliminate that obstacle Pg.25
  • The UNDER THE RADAR PSYCHOLOGY of group behavior that no one knows but everybody does and you can tap into that for tremendous social success Pg.11
  • A check list of things to do when dealing with others that IMMEDIATELY sets you apart in a way that makes you look “Cool”. Pg.51
  • A quick, easy way to “Turn The Tables” when you are confronted with an asshole/bully Pg.81
  • NEWSFLASH: Why EVERYBODY judges a “Book By Its Cover” and where your first impression with others are going wrong Pg.22
  • 4 Styles of conversation 3 of which kill your chances of ANY success. Pg.54
  • Foolproof method of avoiding REJECTION when meeting people Pg.74
  • How to use your unique traits and feature it in a way that makes others see you as “Cool” and WANT to be around you Pg.26
  • Why people Jude negatively about you before you even open your mouth to speak Pg.24
  • How to never publicly get humiliated and how to come out on top if it happens Pg.79
  • When you finally get the SUCCESS you set out for this is what you need to do to never lose it again Pg.83

You’ll get pages and pages of PRACTICAL real-world techniques that you won’t find anywhere else.

I Guarantee It!

Once you see my explanations and specific directions you'll be able to finally get the kind of results you want...

It becomes simple once you know it

How much bigger do you want your social circle to be? Do you want twice as much more friends? 3x more? 5x more? 10x?

It's up to you...

But here's the thing.

I don't like to brag about it...but I've brushed shoulders with models, celebrities and musicians...I'll show you...

But personally, having a close group of friends that I can rely on and make memories with is more important.

I like the cozy feeling of spending a weekend together at the beach with close friends, enjoying the sunshine... getting the BBQ started....or even just have a popcorn and movie night.


Going out to party and having fun is just as easy...

Can you imagine the total freedom in following where your heart takes you?

Picture it:

You get out of bed every morning excited...

Drink a cup of coffee, text your friends and make plans for the day...

Then you hit the shower, maybe you're going to the beach...

You decide what you want to do with your friends... and it's always going to be fun.

And no more crushing shyness and anxiety. No spending weekends alone, no more missed opportunities, none of that stuff that would drive you crazy.

Your life is yours now... so maybe you like concerts like me... maybe you like to travel... or organize hangouts... whatever you want.

Heck, maybe you want to aim for the stars and spend time with celebrities like I did...

Well that's the kind of chance I'm giving you here... this is not just some hocus pocus.

Surf Social Waves gives you the keys to the kind of life you've dreamed of.

And it will work for you

But Seriously - How Much Is This Going To Cost Me?

Before we talk about that, I want you to think about how this will impact your life, the time it will save and the permanent changes you will have.

If you went out on your own to learn this it could take you YEARS like it did for me. Finding a friend like Em will take even longer...

Maybe never...?

Some go without the answer their entire life...

There's only one other place you can get anything remotely close...and that's a psychiatrist...and they can only help you with overcoming shyness...

If you went to a psychiatrist or even a coach to learn even half of what I'm teaching you, you'd have to pay THOUSANDS of dollars for their sessions. Personally, I charge a lot for coaching.

Well, I don't know about you, but if someone offered me all the answers to overcoming shyness & social anxiety and live the lifestyle for just $1000, I'd be climbing over people to get it...

But thankfully, I'm not asking you for anything close to $1000...

In fact, not even close...

If you could avoid social humiliation/rejection, have amazing conversation and have 10x more friends would you give me only $9.95 if it means having these skills for the rest of your life?

Would that be fair?

To sweeten the deal if you don’t like the book in the first 60 days just send me an email and I’ll refund every single penny to you AND you get to keep the book...

That's a No Risk 100% Money Back Guarantee

I've seen enough, let me in right now!

However, because you can't find this information anywhere else without going to a therapist first I may raise the price after a while.

I've actually sold this book for $37 back in 2010-2015 and it SOLD; the results people were seeing compared to the measly $37 was a no brainer. Recently I dropped the price to get more traffic.

So, if you really want it I would recommend getting it now while it's at this price. 

It hasn't entirely hit mainstream yet but I honestly haven't decided when to change it.

If you still think this is too good to be true, it is not. This is the real deal.

There's More...

Go ahead and take Surf Social Waves for a test drive, not only do you get the entire system, but you also get these three FREE reports...

This is where I reveal tips and tricks that you can use within minutes...

"3 Fixes That Enhance Conversations And Interactions" These instant conversation techniques will improve your communication with others.

I'll teach you:
  • The easy to fix trait that signals people to keep their distance form shy or socially anxious'll wonder why you never thought of it first
  • The shocking truth why people might judge you to not have "trustworthy" personality...once you know it you'll never do it again...
  • What to do when trying to make new friends that puts them at ease
"Here's The Exact Reason Why Nice Guys Finish Last And How You Will Be An Exception". You finally learn why nice guys don't always come out on top in social situations. Whether it's dating, friendship, or work... The answers finally get solved here
You'll learn:
  • How to "fish out" the types of people who want to use you and train them to never do it again
  • How to never miss the critical part of a conversation when people respect you - if you miss this moment they will begin to walk all over you
  • Why it's so hard to change the way people treat you unless you say this one word to them
  • When being nice to women in these situations puts you in the "friend zone"..

In the third booklet "How To Use Social Media To Grow Your Social Circle" you learn subtle tricks to improving social media profiles and posts that create amazing first impressions.



You'll learn:

  • The secret One Minute profile photo technique that get people to like and comment on it over and over again...
  • Here's what NOT to do when posting status updates so that others don't find you boring...
  • How to appear more interesting and approachable just by using your profile.

$9.95 is a painless amount if you consider the life changing system you're getting and to get information this good, you'd usually have to get personal much would you be paying for that? $100? $500? $1,000?

Again...if personal coaching is what you want you can always get in touch with me...

But I'm handing you the exact steps and specific directions to make you successful. It's like having a coach, but way less expensive...

But you have to act now to get it. Order below and grab your copy...

If you're looking to get real results, your search is over...

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Download my ebook which you’ll be reading in 5minutes, you’re going to read in that book 15min a day for the next 20 days and at the end of 20 days you will have a minimum 10x more friends, bullies are going to be avoiding YOU not the other way around and you’ll be at more parties, more get-togethers and more social events where people always look forward for you to arrive.

Do you want 10x more friends, more people paying attention to you in a way where they want to be around you, more number of people asking you to hangout than you know what to do with?


Do you want to continue feeling nervous at social events, have others ignore you when you’re trying to fit-in, or worse, sit at home during weekends thinking of the events you weren’t invited but other people are going to? 

The choice is yours. 

But it’s up to you do take the next step.

I wish you the best of luck.

Your friend,


Chris Chandra


"Secrets To Becoming Socially Savvy & How To Attract 10x More Friends" takes you behind the scenes deep into the minds of other people. You get real world science & psychology that allows you to trigger emotional responses in people that draws them to you. When you are finished reading this book you'll have the kind of success where the only way others will explain it is crediting it to "luck" or they will think "life just dealt favorable cards to you" and only you will know the secret.

Download it now AT MY RISK and read it. You'll get immediate results. If you aren't 100% satisfied for ANY REASON AT ALL, you can send me an email and ask for a refund, KEEP THE BOOK, and pay nothing.

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