I was the guy who showed up to hang out and people would go “Ugh why’d they have to bring HIM?” and they’d avoid talking to me or even looking in my direction. Me…I was the guy who never got the hint from that.
I remember in high school I used to read about cool scientific facts and knowledge about the universe. And I’d remember it for conversations thinking it will mesmerize people and get them to notice me.
Well nobody cared.
Why do they put knowledge & information below the boring stuff? What’s so interesting about those “cool” guys when they have nothing stimulating to offer?
I liked figuring things out and how these dynamics worked instead of sitting around. And I paid attention to things that got attention and what didn’t. I never really thought there’s something out there that can really get me consistent results. I just figured learning social skills is something imaginary and hit & miss. I tried anyways hoping there’d be something.
But then I met a friend named Em. He was one of those “cool” guys except he didn’t have a problem being friends with me.
It’s after I met him that I really understood how things worked, why hot girls flock to certain guys. Or why those same guys are ones who got all the attention. Or why those sameĀ guys got favorable treatment at bars, clubs, get-togethers and even at work.
It was when I started to hang out with Em that I realized why these guys got so much more attention and why shy or introverted guys would never have figured it out.
It was like an unspoken understanding with those “cool” guys that they never talked about.
The more I hung out with Em the more it became apparent to me what this unspokenĀ knowledge and understanding was. And I’d bring it up with Em sometimes and he’d casually acknowledge “Yeah, I’m aware of what I’m doing.”
And it baffled me. That these things were happening in plain sight and shy and introverted guys would never have seen it. So I started learning these techniques and using it whenever I’m out with girls or whenever I’m at parties and it worked just like it would work with those “cool” and popular guys. That was a turning point for me.
I could realize what is really possible. When you can beat the system and not have to be that guy that no one pays attention to, or the guy that never has a girlfriend ever again.
So I spent the next 6 years just living “the life” after my new found knowledge and understanding of this. After the 6 years I kind of decided to come back and teach this stuff to guys who need it.
I realized that A LOT of men never figure out this secret and simply just give up, reach old age never having known what it could’ve been like.
I’ve mentored guys year after year all of whom had incredible success from being shy meager who were treated as inferior beings by society.. women, bosses and even their own “friends”… To becoming a man who suddenly had people on his good side and women throwing themselves at him because they didn’t want the next girl getting to him first. Later on I published it in a book and program where I describe a lot of these techniques in a simple and easy to use format that anyone can follow.
That’s me. If you’re serious about getting this area of your life handled I suggest you try the book out and JUDGE for yourself.
If you want those techniques that I taught other guys click here to go directly to my Ebook page.
Your friend,
Chris Chandra